Reclaim Sex After Birth

Especially with first babies, women can have a tendency to make their baby the centre of their universe. This often leaves little time to focus on, or be with their partner. This drought in every day intimacy and attention flows on to a coital hiatus. Nature, it seems, planned on this to ensure that babies are well looked after and future pregnancies are spaced out. The ‘drought’ can come from either partner and the disinterest in sex and intimacy, stems from a number of issues and conditions, which sadly is not discussed by even the closest of friends, much less the medical fraternity or the media.  Read the rest of the article

Everyone’s experience is different. Some women find  stitches painful and slow to heal, and others experience much less discomfort. It depends on your physical health. Stitches should have dissolved by three to four weeks after the birth; if they haven’t, or you still feel uncomfortable, seek help from your doctor or health professional. Women who do have stitches need to be mindful that the stitches go through the skin, and that pain, especially through movement, is an indication that you need to stop and rest.  The stitches are pulling through tissues that are tender, bruised, swollen and traumatised. Read the rest of the article

If you are challenged by finding the time and place to re-connect romantically as you are too busy with caring for small children, then your relationship will benefit greatly by an enhancement of creativity.

It is easy to forget to seduce your partner once settled into a routine. Simple delicious food, created with love and intention in an unhurried manner is the best aphrodisiac in existence.

In our new mini-ebook “Recipes For Passion” we have put together ideas to inspire you and rekindle the flame of passion.

- How to enjoy a romantic meal at home for busy parents

- 7 easy tips for table settings that engage the senses

- 3 seductive spices

- A sensual yet simple 3 course dining experience

For more romantic recipes:

The Valentine Foods of Love Aphrodisiac Recipes is where you will find a mixture of sweet and savory concoctions designed to put you (and your lover) in the mood using aphrodisiac foods such as asparagus, figs, oysters, mushrooms, lobster, chocolate, banana, strawberries. Definitely a great place to stop for last minute romantic meal inspirations!

An entire book devoted to the art of sensual cooking, InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook is definitely worth a look. The book itself is filled with recipes and tales of the couples who’ve put them to work. The InterCourses Web site includes must-see pictures from the book and a selection of exotic recipes including Creamy Stuffed Figs, Honey Glazed Salmon, Basil Fritatta Hero and Black Russian Cake.

The European Gastronomy Site details the history of aphrodisiac cooking, complete with sensual recipes and stories of love potions from the temples of Eros, Aphrodite and Dionysus. Help bring to life the almost magical effect of otherwise standard fare.

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